Tips to keep kids off drugs

Jo Ann Pearce, A Chance to Change Foundation
Published: July 27, 2008

No one thinks their child will become a drug addict. But almost everyone knows someone whose child has become addicted to alcohol or other drugs.

Oklahoma kids are experimenting with drugs and alcohol in 7th grade or sooner. So let’s not put our heads in the sand. Let’s do everything we can do to ensure that our kids have a healthy future!

Here are TIPS FOR PARENTS (and grandparents and anyone who loves a child)

  • Make sure your children know about your beliefs about using drugs and alcohol.
  • Be a good example.
  • Know your family history of alcoholism and addiction. This disease is often passed down through families.
  • Be watchful for signs of drug and alcohol use and experimentation. If you suspect usage, check it out.
  • Do not condone breaking the law, including drinking and smoking by minors. It sends the wrong message to kids.
  • Know your kid’s friends.
  • Encourage your child’s interests and constructive activities.
  • Work with other parents to set standards for your children’s behavior.
  • Know that denying your child’s drug and alcohol problem, blaming others, and making excuses for him/her only makes it easier for your child to use.
  • Realize that if your child is using, it does NOT mean you are a bad parent or that you did something wrong.
  • Listen to your child and let them know you love them no matter what.
  • If your child has a problem with drugs or alcohol, get professional help right away.

Why do kids use drugs?

They use to fit in with their peers; to escape pain in their lives; for fun; because they are curious.

PARENTS are the best prevention for drug and alcohol use. Even though adolescents may not think it is cool to listen to their parents, they actually do care what their parents think.

For more information about addiction and how it affects the family, attend the free A Chance to Change Education Series on Mondays at 6:30-8:00pm. The ongoing, six part series is taught by counselors and physicians. The location is the Boy Scouts Last Frontier Council, 3031 NW 64 Street.

For more information about helping your children avoid alcohol and drug abuse, see www.jointogether.org; www.theantidrug.com; and www.achancetochange.org.